Having a baby can be a roller coaster of emotions - especially when you first arrive home.
Most mothers find the "getting back home" an exciting (but anxious) time. Suddenly you're on your own.
For the first hours or days after giving birth (however long it is before you go home) you have support systems in place. You know that if something goes wrong or something unexpected occurs, professionals are there to help you and your baby. There is a degree of security and comfort in knowing you are not on your own. But suddenly all this is gone!
For some mothers this isn't a problem. They feel confident - and that is one of the best possible feelings for any new Mum.
The good news is that, if you let them, your maternal instincts will take over. The vast majority of women find that when they let nature take its course, the very nurturing instincts that make us mothers take over.
So don't be scared. Be natural. When baby wakes up, meet his or her needs out of instinct - you know she or he (or "they"!) needs a feed, a change, "winding", and lots of hugs and cuddles. As the ad says: "Just do it".
Have fun. Motherhood is enjoyable - especially with a newborn!
More information about Angela Long and how I may be able to help you at http://www.angelalong.com.au/
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Life with a newborn has its funny little ups and downs
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mentoring,
mother support,
mothercraft,
motherhood,
mothers for mothers,
new baby
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